Just a quick little post about this video I saw on the news earlier this week. This video is something from the media and something I feel people should watch. It is about a 10 minute story on forgiveness. I suggestion you all watch.
As someone who used to hold grudges, I grew up and learned that holding onto anger and grudges does nothing but make YOUR life miserable and stressful in the long run. It also affects the health of your life because holding onto too much anger has been proven to cause more stress, anxiety and even depression for some. Bottom line: don't hold grudges and in time, learn to forgive people. I mean, you can forgive someone and still not forget what was said or done; but, forgiving will at least end the anger peacefully. You don't have to become "buddy buddy" with the person again; but, at least you can be neutral toward one another. People need to learn how to forgive; but not forget.
This story is definitely a good story that I feel shows something that we should see more of.... Why hold grudges, ya know? As Buddha said-- "Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; You are the one who gets burned."
Honestly I didn't watch the video but I read the rest of the blog and I ALWAYSSS forgive people. Like my ex cheated on me and I forgave him and then he did it again so I said fuckk ittt so I do have a grudge against him . . but I do love that Buddha quote, regardless.
ReplyDeleteAmen Jbeth.
ReplyDeleteI like this one.
"Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it." -Mark Twain
--Is this post in any way related to the forgiveness you so desire from cope after the bald comment?
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Good post and video!
I love the Buddah quote!
ReplyDeleteSo effective and so true.
I am the WORST at holding grudges. They go on for years. So this post makes me feel like I should be more forgiving during stupid fights!
Good post!
I saw this i think! And i thought it was extremely enlightening! I gave them a lot of credit for them forgiving the guy after everything. I honestly wish I was a lot more like that!
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ReplyDeletehaha thanks, Lauren...maybe it is, maybe it isn't! lol
ReplyDeleteThanks Colleen and allyouneedislove....I use to hld grudges myself. But, after like 15 I realized how unhealthy it really can be.